Kitchen Table Talk

Life happens at the kitchen table. Kids do their homework there, partners discuss important family and relationship issues, bills are paid, cookies are made, and love happens there, too. The family kitchen table is likely the most important, and most humble, piece of furniture in the home and oh, if those boards could talk!

Shape

Kitchen table furniture comes in all shapes and sizes, materials and styles. Personally, I think the best tables are round or oval, which promotes eye contact and conversation among those sitting around it. Pull up a chair, and you can likely easily see everyone else at the kitchen table. Furniture that is round or oval tables makes it easier to squeeze more people around.

Rectangular

Rectangular kitchen table furniture is likely the most common in a kitchen, as it fits in well with the proportions of most rooms. Large families generally favor long tables, as do families with a clear hierarchy of parents on the ends (or "head" of the table) and kids along the sides. Unfortunately, the long, straight nature of these tables makes conversation difficult between people at either end.

Square

Square tables are a distinctive choice when the room proportions are also square. A square table can also double as a game table and it promotes conversation among all those sitting at the kitchen table. Another great benefit of square kitchen table furniture is for smaller households -- those with one to three members. Unlike a larger rectangular table, a square table is cozy and doesn't feel as empty when only a few people are sitting at it.

Sometimes, the kitchen counter serves as the table. For tiny kitchens, this may be the only choice; it can still provide a cozy space for two people. However, if there is room for a small table and chairs, I always recommend them. Kitchen counters don't promote lingering and conversation the way a table does.

Chairs

Of course, we need to sit down at our tables. Kitchen chairs are likely the most worn items of furniture in our homes, and I always advise that clients purchase the best they can afford. Kitchen seating should be comfortable, sturdy and cleanable. But chairs aren't our only choices for seating around the kitchen table. A built-in banquette can be a great choice when space is limited, as can a sunny window seat. Just pull the table up and add some chairs on the other side and you've got a cozy, space-saving nook. Other unique seating can include simple wooden benches (not overly comfortable, but cute nonetheless) or stools that can be pushed fully under the table for saving space. On the other extreme is a comfortable sofa. A small sofa with a firm seat and back pillows can be a wonderful choice for sitting at a kitchen table. Cover the sofa in a cleanable fabric and you have a stylish and comfy place to enjoy a leisurely meal and conversation with family and friends.

The kitchen table tells the story of its owners with every scratch and mark. Embrace the wear and tear and signs of use: These are sure to remind you of the good times your family had gathered round the kitchen table.

Choose a table to go with the design of your kitchen. Set up seating around the island, or create a separate dining area.